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Section 2.1: Building Health Skills
1. Communicating with respect and care
2. Being a good listener.
3. Using “I” messages to express feelings
I think all of these strategies were very helpful because it enabled me to experience relaxation through two mediums: individually through exercise and meditation and socially through conversation with friends. This balance of both personal time and social time with loved ones are important to relieve stress.
Marcos (or Sarah): Hmm…I know I really wanted to see this movie tonight. However, I can go see it with friends this weekend. Would you be interested in watching Movie A or Movie B instead?
Marcos (or Sarah): I’m not really interested in watching Movie A since I was not impressed with its prequel. However, Movie B sounds interesting from the trailers.
Marcos (or Sarah): Great! Both were good for me, but since you are cool with Movie B. Let’s go see that instead!
As we can see, being open-minded and flexible when discussing options can help resolve the conflict. In this case, they both discussed different options until they found one which they can both agree on. We can also see that Marcos or Sarah could see their preferred movie with other friends at a later date. By having this flexibility, all sides will have a beneficial result.