How to Succeed in School Essay
How to Succeed in School To get great grades in any level of school, begin with a picture of yourself as an employed adult, living in your own home. See yourself as a spouse and parent. Then begin doing what you need to do to get there. Steps 1. Think about what you will have to offer on your application to the college you may want to attend. Will your first choice of schools want to welcome you to their student body? If you choose a military career, will the branch of service you want welcome you? 2. Think about the type of lifelong friends you want to have. Will you fit in that circle? 3.
Think about what you will have to offer on your application for the job you want. Will the interviewer want to hire you over the next guy in line? Will you have the knowledge and the skills you need to get and hold the job you want? 4. Think about the kind of partner with whom you want to share your life and raise your children. Will your education attract the kind of spouse you need to help you be a good parent and a good citizen? 5. Think about the end results of your education; then you will know that good grades are not the end goal. You want a great education. This is your turn at getting the best your school has to offer. . Think of your teachers as offering you tools to put into your toolchest. When you graduate you can walk out of school with a full set of tools or a practically empty toolbox. Unless you have a mental disability it is up to you to pick up each tool as it is offered and put it into your toolbox. Don’t let these tools slip out of your hands. 7. Set a goal. When is your next report card due? If you’re making a C in a certain class, aim for a B. If you’re making a B, aim for an A; so on and so forth. 8. Tell yourself you want a good future and a good job. Picture yourself in your dream job.
Now picture yourself on the street. Which do you want? 9. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, talk to him/her about your plans and let them know that you might not have as much time to focus on them. 10. Take notes in class, do your homework, and have good attendance. Make sure to focus on your studies and work, instead of that new hot guy/girl in class! 11. What ever you do, don’t give up! Always set your goals high and achieve them , plan ahead, and stay on top of everything. 12. Become a well-rounded individual, but don’t forget to pursue your strengths. 13. Join extracurricular activities.
This will allow you to make more friends, do something fun, and have something to add on a college or even job resume to show people that you are a well rounded-individual. Tips • Learn to listen. Eighty percent of the questions you find on any test were explained in class. • If you can’t read well, find a tutor. An older student, a teacher, find someone who will listen as you read, read, read! • If you have poor penmanship, learn it now! Many classes require great handwriting, like English and Science. • Read more to improve reading speed and comprehension. Read for pleasure at home to achieve this. Read all kinds of books. This way, you’ll learn how to understand different texts and it’ll become pretty interesting. Warnings • Be eager to put effort and energy into your work. Shirking simply will not get you the education you want to have. How to Become an Excellent Student Steps[pic] Like all exceptionally great students, you must pay attention! When a teacher is giving a lesson, take notes and if you don’t get something, raise your hand and ask. The more questions you ask, the smarter you’ll get, believe it or not. By passing notes and talking to friends, you won’t learn anything, so pay close attention! 1.
Review your notes when you have free time. 2. Take some time to write some problems up, or you could ask someone to write them for you. Just remember, it doesn’t hurt to go over what you have learned. 3. Do your homework. Teachers give you homework for a reason. It is to review what you have learned that day. Take advantage of your free time. If you really want to be a successful student, you should know right from the beginning when you want to be great at anything, you have to put up with things that just don’t seem fair. Doing your homework is not a big deal. Remember, homework can also help you develop good habits and attitudes. . Be prepared. Bring everything you need with you to class. Books, folders, pens, pencils, homework, review sheets etc. whatever you need it would be a good idea to bring it. 5. Get organized. Keep a folder for each subject, and yes, you put your math papers in your math folder, you put your Language Arts papers in your Language Arts folder, you put your science papers in your science folder, and so on. It would really be a good idea to color code or label your folders. 6. Study. It would be a good idea to start studying a few days before a test. Make a study schedule.
If an extracurricular activity gets in the way of your studying, tell the person in charge of that certain event, that you will not be able to attend that event, or you will have to leave early. However, there will be certain situations where you will have to attend whatever it is. In this kind of situation, you will just have to study another day. This is where your study schedule comes in. Write out a schedule of the week of your test and find your free time. Always remember, use your time wisely. 7. Start to read a little more. If you are not already a reader, start at your level and work your way up.
You may not know this, but by reading more challenging and difficult books, you are expanding your vocabulary. 8. Ask a parent or older sibling to look over your notes and create a mini-test for you 3 days advance of your test. You should always want to study before the night of your test. 9. Use of mindmaps can be helpful for understanding hard topics.  Tips • Always go for extra credit even if you are getting a 98% in that certain class. You can always do better. • Stay focused. Everyone knows school can be boring, but you have got to concentrate on getting focused.
Keep your eyes on the teacher, keep your ears open, and take notes. Taking notes will help you think and help you understand what is being taught more. • Sleep! Sleeping well is essential to keep you concentrated on classes and also on your studies. • Rewriting notes taken in class is helpful if taking exceptionally hard classes. (Ex. law, economics, engineering etc. ) • Lessons are fun if you pay attention and listen to what the teacher is saying, and if you know about that topic you will feel good, and if you don’t know about it, maybe you should study it a little. • Find out your learning style (ex. isual, auditory, kinesthetic, etc. ) and look online to find out about study habits that match your learning style. You’ll be surprised at how much easier it is! But be sure to answer the quiz questions truthfully. • Also, find out if you are a left brain or a right brain. Left brain is organized, logical, rational. Right brain is intuitive, lets feelings go, sees things in an abstract way. If you take a quiz and discover you are both, no worries! Lots of people are. • Study before sleeping (but don’t stay up too late! ). By doing this, you’ll remember what you’ve studied the next morning.
But if you study then watch TV or something like that, you’ll forget more (because memories are consolidated during sleep). • Also remember that psychological studies have shown that people tend to forget much of the information learned in the last ten minutes before falling asleep. So you should do something else before you go right to bed after studying.  Warnings • Whatever you do, do not procrastinate; don’t put things off. If you do, you will have to rush on that certain project, and you probably won’t get the grade you wanted in the first place.
If you procrastinate for a test, you will have to review what you will be tested on in a short amount of time. • Don’t freak out if you get a bad grade on a paper. Everyone (including high level students) get bad grades once in a while. It’s not the end of the world. Just try harder next time. • Above all, don’t cheat. Cheating doesn’t teach you anything at all. Plus, if you get caught, you will get into serious trouble. It’s not worth it! • Sometimes being an excellent student can lead to unpopularity or people thinking that you are weird. Do some sports or socialize once a while. Be on top of your grades. If your school has online grades (Skyward) then check every other day. That way you aren’t surprised when you get your progress report, and know if you forgot to turn something in, need to work on something or if a teacher entered a grade wrong. How to Appear Like a Smart Girl at School This guide will cover mainly physical appearance plus tips and advice on how to act in school. Smart girls can have the world at their feet if they work hard for their goals. For more tips on increasing your intelligence, please see related articles.  Steps . Envision yourself being known as the “smart girl” in school. Observe other brainy girls carefully. What do you like about them? What do you dislike about them? Make a list of the pros and cons before you consider the change. 2. Cut your hair to a medium length. Studies have shown that medium length hair is perceived as intelligent. If your hair is medium length, you can neatly braid it, wear it down and natural or put it in a neat looking bun. No matter what length, you should make sure its clean and neat. Whatever your style, make sure it doesn’t take too long to manage.
You will want to spend more time on learning and less time on standing in front of the mirror. Keep it natural looking and avoid hair color and too much hair product. A small leather headband is good too. 3. Dress in an intelligent looking way. Cotton Polo shirts, T-shirts with the names of museums or with University Logos on them, plain and tailored looking pants, knee-length and above the knee skirts and clean, neat, clean-cut and sensible leather shoes/sandals are all nice. Navy blue, plaids and brown also look nice, but don’t do it every day. Avoid trends and flashy clothes.
Dress modestly. Don’t show too much skin. 4. Keep your make up clean and not excessive or elaborate. No glitter or shine. Imitate the makeup of women of stature. Look for inspiration off fashion websites that address makeup for working women, and only use makeup in that section. You don’t have to wear any makeup if you don’t want to. Avoid wearing piercings. 5. Wear glasses if you need them. Sometimes it makes people seem more intelligent, especially rectangle and rounded frames. Keep them clean. Thick frames are especially good. However if you don’t need them-don’t be pretentious. 6.
Carry these items: a practical backpack of reasonable size, a good book to read, an address book to put your friends phone numbers in, notebooks for your various needs, school paper, some pencils with good erasers, some ball point pens, a hand held manual pencil sharpener that doesn’t need to be used over a trash bag, some good art erasers, some good eraser caps and a study/day planner. 7. Impress the teachers. Start to study very hard and keep trying to raise your grades. Ask your teachers what you can do for extra credit. Your teachers in High School will write recommendations for you for College.
IMPORTANT to keep that in mind. Become a “Do-er” at school which means win the Science Fair, run for office or organize the school dance. Write good articles for the school newspaper. 8. Show enthusiasm about school. Many teens show or pretend to have a very negative or bored attitude about high school and working hard. They think it is “cool” to be indifferent. Be the opposite. If you don’t take delight in school-why waste you time? You are there to learn. 9. Build a “homework cave” for yourself at home. Keep all your work/book supplies in one place, a desk and a strong desk light.
Insist on peace and quiet from other family members. If it is too loud at home, study at the public library. If you organize your school work and make lists-it helps you. 10. Start a project in your school. Ask the Principal first to get permission. Try to raise money and awareness for certain causes such as “Stopping Hunger in Africa” or “Cure for Childhood Cancer”. it will make you feel really good too. 11. Exercise as much as you can. It will give you much needed focus, make you more relaxed. Eat protein sources-egg white, tuna fish, chicken, power bars etc.
Try out for a good team sport like soccer or something you enjoy. Get good at it and enjoy it. Attend sports camps in the summer for at least 2 weeks. Try to jog slowly building up to 3 miles a day to help your endurance. Also run stairs if you can to build up your leg muscles. A great side benefit is how thin you will stay or become and you will feel great about yourself. Also working out at a gym can build strength and confidence. 12. Find a smart woman you can role model after. Ask if she will “mentor” you during school. 13. Set getting into a good college for your top goal at the end of middle school.
College admissions look at the High School you went to, your transcripts (grades and SAT scores), your teacher/counselor recommendations and what you tell them in your essays about yourself. Finish college applications early when you are a Senior. 14. Discover interesting things to do with your close friends and when you are by yourself-Frisbee club,guitar lessons, photography and drawing classes are all fun to do with friends. 15. Practice time management. It will leave you more room for fun. Figure out where you are losing too much time in your day and fix it. 16. Develop poise. Work at becoming steady and confident.
Try to some have composure at all times. Giggling, gossiping and insecurity makes you look silly. Practice staying calm under pressure and being comfortable in a variety of settings.  Tips • Work at discovering your passions and interests in life. It is so important! Seek out experiences that make you grow as a person. Take small risks (2 of them) every week. Look carefully at how you could create a more ideal world. If anyone makes fun of you just ignore them even if it is hard. • Whatever you do, be yourself. There is nothing smart about pretending to be someone you’re just not.
Stick with your look – it’s just sad seeing someone try to be smart and the next day completely going back to being “one of the pretty girls”. You will totally lose respect. • Reap the rewards of being a “smart” girl. Make an “achievement” wall in your room. Place papers that get A’s, school awards, team medals, trophies, anything that you got for working hard and achieving. It will grow over time and you can look back with pride in how well you are doing. • If you are trying to use a bigger vocabulary – make sure you actually understand what you are saying. Otherwise you’ll seem like a fake and everyone will laugh at you.
Try learning a new word from the dictionary each day. • While you’re at it, try to enrich your mind. Take your reading a step further. If you like reading slightly trashy, fictional books about strong girls and women, read a book about modern feminism. Watch or listen to the news as much as possible. Impressions of intelligence are built over time- so the more often you can offer some insight or fact you gain from higher level reading or just knowing about the world around you, the smarter you’ll seem. • Try out a “smart” activity, such as the forensics (speech and debate) team at your school.
Researching for your events- be it extemporaneous speaking, oratory, or a certain style of debate- is a fun and addictive way of learning new things. Other things you can do: tutoring, community service, and maybe political campaign work (especially now. ) • Always try your best to also be noticed but not too attention getting. Take lots of notes in class and listen to teacher. Sometimes you gotta do things to get recognition at school. Be the first to finish your class projects. Don’t just look smart but be smart. Win some awards and praise from the school teachers.
Set goals to improve your grades but don’t stress out too much! • Have a book with you all the time and not something trashy. They are great conversation starters. Look in the Classics section in the bookstore. Have a SAT TEST book to study, carry it around. SAT test guides should be seriously studied because you need high scores for college. • Find one adult to be on your side during your change over to becoming a smart girl. • Yoga is a good way to relieve any stress. They sell CD’s or you can take a class. • Ask people what their grades are and seem very concerned with yours.
Smart girls are obsessed with good grades because they want to go to a good university such as Stanford, Dartmouth, UC Santa Cruz, Williams, George Washington University and the University of Miami. • Work on the school newspaper. Make sure you always have a after school activity every day. Team sports and any charity work look great on a college application. • Be more competitive. Try to see what scores other people have, and try getting yours(even maybe just a bit) higher than theirs. • Start writing all the time. Anything you want to write. Most high schools and colleges reward very good essays.
They might even read your story aloud to the class! • Develop strong ethics and beliefs. Question everything and remain curious. Develop a love for social activism. Do you love the Democratic/Republican party? Why? Are you pro/con gun control or the death penalty. Why? You will need to write essays to get into college so start thinking/questioning what your values are. Do your own research. • Do something off the wall that you have never tried just for yourself- learn to play the trombone, horse backride or live in another country for 8 weeks during your Senior year.
Check out all possibilities and keep an open mind.  Warnings • To do this you must be steady and consistent. Your behavior and your language should be softer and not aggressive. • It’s hard if you are shy but smart kids ask questions to their teachers. It might be extra hard to ask a teacher a question about the subject that he or she is teaching but try it. Then listen very carefully. • A typical day of a smart girl is tough. You might have AP or honor classes to study for then a sports practice or a club session. During the summer try swimming and biking to build your physical endurance.
It helps the brain function better. • When you go to a party just have one drink. Alcohol destroys brain cells not to mention your liver. Many kids who are under pressure or stress from school drink to forget their problems-don’t be a crowd follower- it makes you look and act stupid and you might do things you will regret. Don’t get off your goal oriented track. • If your parents start to pressure you about grades, etc. tell them you are working on yourself and show improvement. If they are obsessed about you and everything you do at school-you have a big problem if they won’t back off.
Tell them very nicely and gently that they need to get a new hobby besides you. Smile at them and give them a hug. • If you feel burn out and are seriously unhappy, ask your parents if you can take the entire summer off. • Don’t let the day that the college admissions offices release their result make you too upset. The competition these days to get into certain universities is almost impossible. Don’t take it personal!!! • A big turn off hanging around smart people is they can become “know-it-alls” and brag too much about themselves. Keep clear of that obnoxious behavior and fly low under the radar.
Never BRAG about your high test scores/ or awards. Surprise people when they didn’t know you had it in you! Wait until they hear about it from your mom, best friend or teachers. • There will be people and events that will seem to stop you in your goals and dreams. If you want it badly enough-you will be successful. How to Get Great Grades With No Effort Getting great grades requires loads of studying… or does it?  Steps 1. Sit in the front row in class. That will make you seem interested. 2. Answer a question when the chance comes up.
Do not give in to what-if-I’m-wrong attitude… It’s better to try. 3. Let the teacher know you are aiming for a high grade. That way you will seem ambitious. Teachers love that and you will find out exactly what you need to do or work on to get an A. 4. Focus on the part the teacher tells you to. It will be apparent you listen and that you are willing to work hard to achieve your goals. When doing an assignment, check the grading criteria (or rubric) twice. Sometimes it’s only one extra thing that changes a grade from B to A. For example: One is writing about how much dogs are hated.
The grading criteria lists “To get an A you must discuss the topic from another perspective. ” Simply remembering to include in the writing why dogs are good may be all the difference between a B and an A paper. 5. Get a good amount of sleep each night. You will be surprised at how much more easily you can focus and absorb what you learn when you are well rested.  Tips • When writing essays, do not write on something in the textbook. It’ll take you less than one minute to look up some extra information on Google or Wikipedia and it’ll make you so much brighter. Be sure to study for tests, and try not to leave it to the last minute. o Try not to be lazy, if being lazy, you won’t want to study which can lead to having bad grades.  Warnings • Never ever cheat. • When using Wikipedia make sure you check the info twice because Wikipedia can be editted by anyone who has a computer and internet. • Note: Putting effort has been proved to actully raise grades! What’s the point of being smart with no effort to prove so? You can’t go through life pretending to be smart. You have to BE smart. • Just because you get a C on a paper don’t give up, try harder.
Practice makes perfect, so studying makes great grades! How to Be an All Around Good Student [pic] Listening and participating make a great student If your purpose in school is to excel and get great grades, the following tips might just make it easier for you to achieve your goal.  Steps 1. Be Organized. Buy a binder. Buy a pencil case and put all your supplies in there. Make sure your locker is clean. Use your studen handbook too mark events, homework or big projects. 2. Dress Nicely. It shows respect. Don’t wear clothes that are too small or too big. 3. Pay attention at all times and be prepared in class.
Make sure you have done your homework and take notes. Show that you are a willing participant and that you are eager to learn. 4. Do not procrastinate. Leaving until later what could be done today is asking for trouble and crammed results. If a report is due by a certain date, make sure to finish it on time. 5. Participate in class discussions. When you have something to share, raise your hand. 6. Work ahead of the class work. Read further than the chapter in class. If you want to take the lead in your class you need to work hard! 7. Do your homework. Do homework consistently and methodically.
Make sure that you proofread and double check your spelling and facts. 8. Prepare for upcoming tests and quizzes and everything else in between. Fill out the study guides if they are supplied, or make your own guides. 9. Get yourself in a good habit of waking up a little earlier. This will allow you to have a good breakfast. Feeling refreshed and awake are perfect studying conditions. 10. Study in a quiet, non-distracting environment. Distractions during study time will make your studying less effective. This includes TV, people talking, the radio, some music etc. – anything that is taking your mind off the task at hand. 1. Repeat newly registered information quietly out loud. This will enable you to remember it more easily. 12. Remain calm during tests. Breathe deep breaths when the test is being handed out and keep a calm and focused approach as you go through the questions. If you have studied well, you will know the answers, so don’t panic. 13. Skip the hard parts of a test. In a test, if you are truly struggling with a particular question, skip it and continue with the next ones that you can easily swer. . After you have finished all the questions that you are certain about, return to finish the difficult ones.
Use the process of elimination on questions where you are not sure, and guess when you can’t logically narrow it down any further.  Tips • Consider working with a study buddy so that you can ask each other questions that you expect to be on the upcoming test. This way, you can quiz each other. Make practice quizzes and take them by yourself, make practice crossword puzzles and games to help you study. Be wary though — studying with a friend could possibly distract both of you. • Be sure to write legibly and with the correct writing tool during tests.
Using pink pens or colored pencils can cause you to lose points. • Use mnemonics (devices for memorization) when you can (ex. the names of the planets in our solar system: My Very Excellent Mother Just Served Up Nine Pizzas). • Proper planning prevents poor performance. Use Google’s calendar to keep track of what you want to do in the coming days in your academic and private life. The “e-mail alerts” and “cell phone (SMS) alerts” services available will remind you just in case you forget about anything. • To take good notes, keep them neat and complete. Write down anything that you think is important.
Keep separate notebooks for each subject and think about having a table of contents in the front so you can go back and review your work easily. You may even consider keeping two notebooks, one at school and one at home, so if you lose one notebook, you still have another. • Follow up class notes with reading from the textbooks. Good reviews may also help. Google Scholar can help you find good review papers. Using the school’s wireless internet system or library computers (whether at a public library or in school), you can access Jstor, which is a huge database of scholarly journals that could assist you in either study or writing papers. Be civil to teachers and other students as well. They’ll help you more if you’re nice to them. • Study for upcoming tests that you know eventually will come. By the time the teacher tells you that you have a test, you will be fully prepared and not stressed. • Ask questions — that’s why your teachers get paid! They’re there to help you, so don’t be afraid. • SLANT. Over the years, scientists have been observing what good, well rounded students do. S stands for sit up. L stands for look and listen. A stands for answer questions. N stands for nod. T stands for talk to your teacher.
Hopefully, while you are improving grades this will come to you naturally.  Warnings • Many international students are under a lot of pressure to get A’s all the time because they are in scholarship programs. A warning for them and for all students in general: o Don’t sit too long because there is a risk of getting disk hernias in the back which are very painful and medically impossible to cure. They become chronic illnesses. o Don’t stay in front of the computers for long periods because there is a risk of getting myopia in the eyes. When the eyes get myopia, glasses have to be worn.
It is not comfortable to use glasses all the time. o Stand up and take a 10 minute walk every 30 minutes of study or work. It is going to be healthy for your eyes and your back. • Make sure you retain all your notes from previous lessons. This will enable you to refer to them, at final exams or national/state/provincial/regional tests. How to Motivate Yourself  Steps 1. Think through a set of goals that sound as though they are what you want, and try to be specific. The key to most motivation remains setting goals, but you can’t just pick any goals. 2.
Make it general. Let’s say you want a Corvette specifically, are you really saying you want a new car, or maybe just a car you can stop worrying about? Getting yourself to a reliable car is a goal that is easier to achieve and accomplishes the need you had from the get go. This is not copping out–no one needs a Corvette. 3. Do this with all of the goals you have, do not simply pick ones that sound good like most people pick New Year’s resolutions. If the goals you set for yourself make your life easier or more rewarding, they are probably the type you need to focus on. 4.
Cut pictures out of the car that you want, or the TV, stereo, golf clubs, whatever you are aiming for, and put them up somewhere you can see them every day. On the fridge door, or on the wall next to the computer. When you look say “That’s my car” or “That’s my TV”. Visualizing these items as yours will help keep you motivated. 5. Anyone who has had serious issues with motivation knows that someone telling you to “stay motivated” is a bit daft, since you weren’t in a motivated state to begin with, and as such, is hard to /stay/ in. However anyone can get themselves motivated. 6.
Make your goals in the very beginning small. If you write out a long list of things that are really valuable for you to do, and then you mess one up, you’re going back to starting at zero and you will likely feel pretty badly. Instead make a list for each day, and at first, only put down maybe 3 or 4 things, a set of activities that might take you 2 or 3 hours. 7. If you can do that, then a week later start adding things in about an hour at a time and build up. It’s like doing pushups in the Army, the first day you get there and feel terrible because you can’t keep up with the physical training, but you build up to it.
Goals and mental attitudes are the same way. You have to make it a series of small steps. Don’t set yourself up for failure by reaching too high at first. You can always reach higher the next week. There’s no limit here, so pace yourself. 8. Rely upon yourself for the motivation and the drive. Other people do not have and will never have the same vested interest in your success. Motivation and success is a function of habit. You must break your bad habit of procrastination, and replace it with one of good planning.
The most successful people in the world aren’t always the brightest, or the best looking, but no matter what other talents or gifts they have been blessed with, they have underpinning their self esteem a series of victories over tasks both large and small. This is how you learn anything in school, gain confidence dating, and everything else in life. 9. Don’t just think that you’re the best, prove it to yourself. Your opinion matters the most in your own motivation, but you know when you’re pulling your own leg as to your accomplishments.
It’s far easier to just start dealing with your responsibilities and knowing, with an incredibly strong epistemic justification (by which I mean, you KNOW this) that you can handle what comes up because you have before, than trying to know you can tackle it because you’re all warm and fuzzy inside. Warm and fuzzy accomplishes very little, but neither does beating yourself up. 10. Reward yourself when you complete a part of your task, your mind will recognise this and you will want to do whatever you did to give yourself a treat more. 11.
Get back up if you fall. Start again. Start where you are comfortable. Getting back up to try again, no matter how small that task, goal, activity, errand, or whim; If you can complete it, you are already back on your way. Get up, don’t look back. Cheers!  Tips • Focus yourself and your availability: your time and space management. If you can organize your time and work out something that will allow you to build on your motivation and do something to allow you to achieve your goals, you will actually get somewhere. • That’s about it.
You are the one doing this. Whatever you accomplish, was your doing. Not this article or your mates who encouraged you, but yours. Don’t brag, it makes you seem daft. Just keep going. You’ll be amazed what you’ll end up taking on and completing in short time • Think about a time that you motivated yourself and saw the benefits. • If you can imagine the end goal, in it’s entirety and then focus on that image subconsciously your mind will figure out how to do it. So the more you believe it the easier it will be to motivate your self. edit] Warnings • There are things that will occur that you must do, studying for exams for instance. With any luck you will be reading this well before your exams, because you should be studying for your exams all semester… now shouldn’t you? Procrastination is the opposite of motivation in our day to day lives. Remember, do a bit a day. When your exams come around you won’t be sweating like everyone else. Now /that/ is positive reinforcement. • Do not rely on thinking happy thoughts. Know that you can do it from experience.
Fill one hand with happy thoughts and the other with excrement, see which hand becomes full first. • CONSULT YOUR MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL if this lack of motivation has been paired with feelings of depression, loneliness, bouts of crying, thoughts of hurting yourself or others, etcetera. Clinical Depression is a serious illness that results from chemicals in the brain being quite literally out of balance. Clinical Depression is treatable, many times it is not something which will follow you your whole life, and anyone who thinks it is can bugger off.
It’s your life, be careful with it, and seeing a doctor if you’re the least bit concerned might cost a bit of coin, but could be priceless to have a professional talk to you, and see how he or she can help.  Things You’ll Need • Pen • Paper • Faith In Yourself How to Be Self Motivated Being Self-motivated means driven, focused, ready for objective discussion, also being sharp and smart enough not to be manipulated and be open to positive learning. Being in this state of mind always, is the challenge.  Steps 1.
Understand, “self motivated” is a state of mind which we should earnestly try to be in as often as we can. The first step to understand is that this state of mind is possible, but it is generally very elusive or comes for a short span of time, encouraged by short term commitment or by a dream fulfilment process. 2. Remember, that what you think is unique in your life or situation is not unique at all. There may be something similar or more unique in others’ lives. There are only two types of people; one who succumbs to a situation, or one who overcomes successfully. 3. Try to think about good things around you .
Change your over all mood and then start taking small significant decisions – look for getting more facts for accurate assessment of the situation. 4. Get into positive spiral. One positive step leading to the next. 5. Remember, that being self motivated is your challenge. Do not expect any external positive contribution. If you get that, you are lucky. Looking inside on your strengths is the KEY.  Tips • The objective is to unleash your true potential. • The journey of unleashing the potential is a truly worthy-one. During this journey knowingly/unknowingly you will have helped many unleash their respective potential. There will be hurdles, but you have got to keep going. One wrong step can wash out all the good steps you have taken and similarly one right step can also leap you forward. This is Life. • Positive affirmations repeated often will help you become strong. Choose one that fits with your problem. If you are scared, “I have no fear”. If you are shy “I am a very confident person”. • Speak them as though you are already the way you want to be. Do not say “I am becoming positive”, “I am positive” is much better.  Warnings • Be soft to yourself. • Being self motivated does not mean forcefully smiling and trying to