John Donne wrote about love and sex in many of his poems.
John Donne is a love poet who focuses mainly on his wife in his writing, although some of his sexual references may seem selfish or cold. By studying two of his poems, I believe that he reveals a less self-centered character. "The Song" is written as a farewell to his wife before he leaves, reassuring her that they are not truly parting. Through vivid imagery and carefully chosen words, Donne expresses his deep love for his wife in this poem.
The statement "But since that I/Must die at last, 'tis best/to use myself in jest" could be misinterpreted as selfish and self-obsessed. However, the speaker is actually comforting his upset wife about his upcoming departure. He explains that since death is inevitable, it's good to practice b
...eing apart from each other. Although it may seem like he believes his wife loves him so much that she needs practice for when he dies, it is only a way to reassure her and apologize for his absence. The speaker also uses a compensating verse to calm her fears. He compares himself to the sun, which went away but returned the next day, and reassures his wife that he would return faster than the sun because he has "more wings and spurs than he." This shows his deep love and commitment to her.The metaphor successfully portrays the speaker's situation as seeming less dire when compared to the immense distance the sun travels to return. By merging their emotions with the comparatively short distance, the speaker is reassured of their eventual return.
The act of sighing or weeping represents something
deeper than just the physical action for me. When thou sigh'st, thou sigh'st my soul away; when thou weep'st, my life's blood doth decay. When my partner expresses sadness through sighs or tears, it affects me deeply. I use the expression 'unkindly kind' paradoxically to convey that her sadness is hurting me inside as well. I understand that this may be seen as selfish in my love for her, but I cannot bear to see her upset over my leaving. I feel a certain power over her emotions and use it to prevent her from making me feel any worse. If she really loved me, she would not break me up and waste my life by constantly being upset over my departure.
(It cannot be, that thou lov'st me, as thou say'st, If in thine my life thou waste) Let not thy divining heart forethink me any ill; Destiny may take thy part, And may thy fears fulfil. But think that we are but turn'd aside to sleep; they who one another keep alive, ne'er parted be. He does not want his wife to dwell on the possibility of bad things happening to him as it may become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead, they should remember that even when sleeping apart, they are still together in their thoughts and love. This heartfelt poem reflects the strong love and support a man has for his wife, especially during moments of separation that require reassurance and comfort.
This poem, A Fever, presents an opposite situation to the one described in the aforementioned verse. In Song, Donne departs from his spouse and advises her not to fret, while in A
Fever, it’s his wife who is sick with fever and he implores her not to leave him, fearing her death could leave him alone. In Song, he offers reasons for her peace of mind and discourages her from dying by cajoling her. As the fever worsens throughout the poem, the tone becomes more somber and Donne becomes less irate at the illness and his wife, growing sentimental towards her instead.
The speaker expresses his fear of losing his beloved, stating that if she were to die, he wouldn't be able to love or like another woman again. He also mentions that he would not be able to celebrate or love her memory since he would only remember her as a woman he hates. Despite his fear, he believes that she cannot die because when she leaves the world, the whole world disappears with her breath. This statement reflects that she is his whole world, and he couldn't imagine life without her.
When you, the soul of the world, leave and it remains, it is just your lifeless body. Even the most beautiful woman becomes only a ghost when she dies, and the worthiest men become like corrupt worms. This metaphor illustrates how the world would be like a dead carcass without her, and how men would crawl around like maggots on it. This image is gruesome but emphasizes how much she means to him.
Schools and universities often search for ways to end the world, but have they considered that she might be the cause of it through her fever? This verse is meant to add humor to the poem and possibly appeal to
readers.
However, her pure essence cannot sustain such a torturous fever for long, as much corruption is necessary to fuel it. Fire burns off corruption, so this fever cannot last much longer.The line, containing , resembles a self-directed monologue. The speaker comforts himself over the fact that she is running a fever and assures himself that it is only temporary.
Using a clever metaphor, I compare the burning fits to meteors, explaining that their matter is quickly spent. However, your beauty and all the parts that make you are unalterable firmament. Even though I know I can't keep you forever, it was my intention to seize you. I'd rather possess you for one hour than anything else everlasting. I'm grateful to have known and had you.
The poem's tone has softened progressively, shifting from anger to acceptance of the worsening state of his wife, or his newfound realization of it. It could be considered a truer gauge of the author's affection for his wife compared to Song, which was composed as he was departing and focused solely on reassuring her. This poem, however, centers on a conversation aimed at keeping her from leaving and expresses their love for each other. Even with my initial claim that John Donne prioritizes writing about himself instead of adoring his mistress, I continue to hold the same opinion.
Although John Donne's sexual poems like The Apparition, The Flea, and Going to Bed may give the impression that he is solely preoccupied with sex and his own desires, I tend to agree that he appears selfish and disinterested in anything beyond his mistresses. However, as a love poet who writes to
and about his wife, Donne remains clever and witty while his words flow beautifully. In these instances, he is decidedly more focused on his wife than himself; every description of her paints an angelic image and showcases his love for her.
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