Personal Timeline Essay

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Personal Timeline Throughout my lifetime, I have experienced many different milestones that have made me the person I am today. Some of these milestones were difficult and traumatic, while others were very special and joyous events. I feel like a person has to face both the good and the bad times in order to grow. I was born on May 14th, 1989, which happened to be Mother’s Day. I was my parent’s first daughter to an older son. My brother Zachary and I are only eighteen months apart in age, which made us very close friends growing up. I have always lived in Rising Sun, Indiana.

My mother is from Rising Sun and my father is from Roanoke, Virginia. I am proud of the fact that I am very close with my family. In 1993, when I was four years old, my mother gave birth to another little girl named Sydney. This was a very special event for me because I already had an older brother that I loved very much, but I wanted a little sister, too. I still remember when she was born. I stayed with my aunt and when my parents called and said it was a girl I got so excited. I finally got my wish and had a baby sister to help take care of. When my mom brought her home I loved helping take care of her.

I would help change diapers and get her dressed. I treated her as if she was my little baby doll. I am still really close to my younger sister and I wouldn’t trade her for the world. Growing up, one family member that I was really close with was my great- grandmother Elizabeth, I called her Mammy. I loved to go visit and spend time with her. I was her first great-granddaughter and we had a really special bond. Mammy was a Registered Nurse and she always wished that someday, one of her grandchildren would follow in her footsteps and become one as well.

I looked up to my great-grandmother and I realized that is what I wanted to do with my life also. She helped guide me into my choice of going into the medical field. Tragically in the year 2000, Mammy passed away. I was so depressed and sad all of the time. I still miss her and think about her and all of our wonderful memories we had over the time she was here with me. I know she is looking down on me very proudly for sticking to my goals and continuing school to become a registered nurse. When I raduate, she has a box put up for me that I get to have with all of her nursing stuff in it, like her hat, pin, stethoscope, and a lot of other neat things that I will always cherish. Something that I really became interested in while I was in school was the sport cheerleading. When I was in the seventh grade, the year 2001, I tried out for the team for the first time and made it. I will never forget how happy and excited I was to try something new. I had always been the shy, timid little girl and now I had a chance to try something completely different.

It was always hard for me to make friends because of how shy I was. With cheerleading, I made lifelong friends that I still keep in contact with. I cheered all throughout middle and high school. This memory is something that will stay with me forever and is a very happy and special time for me. When I was a junior in high school, my life made a turn for the worst. I met a boy named Mike that I started dating. He was an older boy and I thought I really liked him. We spent a lot of time together because he didn’t like being apart from me.

I took this as a compliment that a guy would want to spend every waking second with me because I was young and stupid. Then I started noticing some really strange patterns happening with Mike. He would show up at my school and job checking up on me. He started to become very controlling and verbally abusive towards me. Mike didn’t like for me to hang out with any of my friends unless he was there or talk to any guys, whatsoever. I became really confused about why he was being like this because most of my friends were guys and I didn’t understand why he didn’t like for me to talk to them.

I did whatever he wanted just to make him happy, which even meant eventually turning my back on my parents. Mike manipulated me into thinking my parents were bad people and that they were trying to keep me from him. Stupid me, I believed him and became very cold towards my parents and family in order to keep Mike happy. After a while, I got tired of the way I was living my life. I missed the bond I once had with my family and friends and when I expressed to Mike how I felt things changed. He became very violent towards me, always jerking me by the arm, smacking me across the face, and even choking me.

I put up with it because he would make me feel bad and like it was my fault. When I told him that I didn’t want a relationship with him anymore, he became enraged. He threw me out of my chair, dragged me by my hair into my room, threw me on my bed, and began punching me and choking me to the point where I almost passed out. I was just in total shock the whole time and I really thought I was going to die that day. Luckily, my grandma and sister got to my house and he freaked out and left. I told my family what was going on and they took me to file for a protection order.

Mike was put in jail for two days and sentenced to probation for one year. This event was one of the scariest things that has ever happened to me and really taught me a lot about trust. The best thing that has happened to me so far in my life was having my baby. In February of 2007, I found out that I was pregnant. I was very scared and shocked, as any 18 year old would be. When I went to get my ultrasound, I decided I didn’t want to know what the sex of the baby was because I wanted to be surprised. On October 15th, 2007, I gave birth to a beautiful little girl named Madison Isabella.

When I first heard the words “It’s a Girl! ” I was so happy. She is my world and I love her more than words can explain. I spend every waking moment with my daughter and I absolutely love being a mom. I know that I am only 18 years old and I am a single parent and things are going to be a lot tougher for me, but I wouldn’t trade Madison for anything. I am very excited for all of the future events to come in my life. I am hoping to graduate college by 2010 and strive towards my goals of becoming a successful Registered Nurse.

I hope I can have everything I want in life and give my family everything they want and need. I hope to be able to retire and live somewhere warm, like Florida or Hawaii by the time I am 65. Hopefully, I will have at least one more child and that my children will give me lots of grandchildren. The thing that will be most difficult for me is losing family members and friends when I become old. I am so kind hearted and can’t stand saying goodbye to people I love. I wish I would live to be 100, but not if that means losing everyone around you.

Ways My Life Is Typical My life is typical of most adults in this society in quite a few ways. I am very close with my family which is something I feel that is typical in today’s society. I also have a lot of goals in my life. Everybody has goals in this world whether they realize it or not. I have a lot of goals based on education and career and I always want to strive towards being the best person that I can be. I have a lot of personal values and morals in my life and I am sure that most people have these, too. Ways My Life Is Different

My life is different of most adults in this society in a lot of ways also. I have lived through an abusive relationship which is something that I hope not a lot of women have to go through. Another big thing that makes me different is the fact that I had a baby when I was 18 and I am a single parent trying to work and go to school to take care of Madison. I have grown from all of the traumatic events that I have faced in my life so far and I hope to continue growing to become a better person. Comparison to Erikson’s Model

In Erikson’s Model, I feel like I am in the stage of Adolescence, Identity vs. Role Confusion. In this stage, teenagers are trying to figure out what they want to do with their lives. Right now, I am having the same struggle. What career choice should I choose? Where am I going to work? Where am I going to live? All of these questions go through my head every day. I think I am doing really well in resolving the conflicts that I am having in this stage. I am attending college figuring out what path to go down and getting more and more knowledge every day about life. I have read and understand the section on what constitutes plagiarism for this assignment, as listed on the PSY 101 web site Assignments page. Further, I have read and understand the Indiana University page on plagiarism. I attest that I have listed all sources used for this paper, and that I have attributed all quotations and paraphrases used in this paper. I attest that all work not represented as belonging to someone else is my own. I understand that any amount of plagiarism on this assignment will lead to a recommended grade of zero for the assignment. “

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