Family Reflection ”No one is ever born into Life alone. Everyone has shared the bond of family, at least at birth, and for many people it is a bond that will follow them throughout life. For many people it is the most important bond of all. ” Family means many things to different people, yet the word itself can bring about a host of emotions from anyone who hears the word uttered. As a child growing up in the 60s and 70s the family dynamic was defined by the people we grew up with were related to by blood, and extended to the many family members of the different generations that made up the family unit.
I have fond memories of growing up with love and compassion, by the people who I was surrounded with. The feeling of secu
...rity and warmth that was created by the family I was lucky enough to have in my life. I always knew that any fear I might have experienced by an outside source would be eradicated, by my comfort zone, the people in my life. The feeling of belonging and acceptance was rewarding to the spirit and learning to live and become who I am is a direct result of my family's part in my life.
As the bonds of love and intimacy are formed, we will develop closeness to our family who are usually there for us through thick and thin. The father, son’s bond, the mother, daughter’s bond, the rivalry of siblings and the relationship of all family members gives us the unity we as human beings need to feel, as we strive for a sense of belonging
and security, to function adequately in life. We do know that a family can be defined in many ways, two dads, two moms, a dad, and a mom, a mom and her offspring, or a dad and his brood.
Whoever is in our family we will see that unit as the cornerstone of our existence. As years go by and life evolves our immediate family will change. Grandparents, and parents may die and spouses can be added to the unit. Children will be born and once again the family changes to incorporate all the new important people in our lives. Life does not stay the same yet, the love and closeness one feels towards their family will remain a constant (hopefully if there is no breaking of family ties). The people may be different, but, the bonds will grow and develop in our existence.
I remember the feeling of completeness and security I had growing up with my mom, dad, grandparents, and extended family members. I always felt like I belonged and was accepted for me. People are not perfect, sometimes in actions and words, but, knowing the unconditional love that we are surrounded with by our families keeps us grounded in our true selves. Now that I am older, I feel the same security that I experienced while growing up. A familiarity of comfort that brings me to a place of peace and security. My own comfort zone where I am loved, happy, cared for and needed.
A family can be defined in many ways, but the common denominator in all is the love and fulfillment one gets by being surrounded by family members. Families can sometimes
be at odds with each other, but the strain of this type of relationship usually creates an upsetting feeling to the people involved. People want others to rely on, talk to, do things with, share, love, embrace, and be part of. No matter what the family dynamic is the qualities the word family has will remain the same, as time goes by, and life evolves once again for every person living their life….
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