Lifespan Ch.14-Attachment and Social Relationships

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Attachment theory formulated by
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John Bowlby
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attachment
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-a strong affectional tie that binds a person to an intimate companion -a behavioral system through which humans regulate their emotional distress when under threat and achieve security by seeking proximity to another person
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babies will
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-follow (proximity-seeking behavior) -suck and cling -smile and vocalize -express negative emotions
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adults respond to infants' signals
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-the hormone oxytocin promote attachment
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infants construct expectations about relationships in the form of
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internal working models
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what are internal working models?
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cognitive representations of themselves and other people that guide their processing of social info and behavior in relationships
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securely attached infants who have received responsive care will form internal working models suggesting that
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they are lovable and that other people can be trusted to care for them
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insecurely attached infants subjected to insensitive, neglectful, or abusive care may conclude that
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they are difficult to love, that other people are unreliable, or both
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What are the two social worlds of childhood
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-one world involves adult-child relationships -other world involves peer relationships
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peer relationships have developmental value
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-peers help children learn relationships are reciprocal -peers force children to hone their social perspective-taking skills -peers contribute to social-cognitive and moral development in ways that parents cannot
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Henry stack sullivan
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different kinds of social relationships at different ages
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until about age 6, the parent-child relationship is central for
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providing tender care and nurturance
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after age 6, peers become increasingly important
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-children needs playmates -then they need acceptance by peer group -then they need chumships
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chumships
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around age 9-12, children begin to need intimacy in the form of a close friendship=chumships
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infancy-early emotions-nature
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primary or basic emotions such as interest and fear seem to be biologically programmed
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primary or basic emotions emerge in which infants and what ages?
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all infants, around the same ages, and are displayed similarly in all cultures
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nature side of emotional development in infants
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- basic emotions probably evolved to help our ancestors appraise and respond to new stimuli -babies' emotional signals prompt caregivers to respond
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nurture side of emotional development in infants
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-caregivers help shape infants predominant patterns of emotional expression -mothers serve as models of positive emotions and elicit positive emotions from their babies - mothers also respond selectively to their babies' expressions
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self conscious emotions
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-appear at about 18 months when babies can recognize themselves in mirrors
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social referencing
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-starts at about 9 months -when infants begin to monitor their companions' emotional reactions in ambiguous situations and use this info to decide how thy should feel and behave
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infants must develop strategies for emotional regulation
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the processes involved in initiating, maintaining, and altering emotional responses
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the caregiver forms an attachment to the infant
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-often before birth -because the infant possesses a repertoire of behaviors such as sucking, grasping, and smiling -because babies are responsive
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caregivers and infants develop synchronized routines
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in which they take turns responding to each other -contributes to a secure attachment relationship and to later self-regulation and empathy
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the infant forms an attachment to the caregiver in the following phases
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1) undiscriminating social responsiveness 0-3 months 2) discriminating social responsiveness (3-6 months) 3) Active proximity seeking or true attachment (6 months-3 years) 4) Goal corrected partnership (3 years and older)
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1) undiscriminating social responsiveness
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-0-3 months -responsive to voices, faces, and other social stimuli but any human interests them -do not have a clear preference for one person over another
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2) discriminating social responsiveness
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-3-6 months -infants begin to express preferences for familiar companions
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3) active proximity seeking/true attachment
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-6months-3 years -infant will follow mother or stay close -infants become attached to other ppl as well
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4) goal-corrected partnership
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-3 years+ -taking a parents goals and plans into consideration and adjusting their behavior to achieve the all important goal of maintaining optimal proximity to the attachment figure
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infants experience attachment related fears
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-separation anxiety -stranger anxiety
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separation anxiety
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-peaks between 14-18 months -becomes gradually less frequent and less intense
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stranger anxiety
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-between 8-10 months -once attached to parent, baby often is distressed in presence of unfamiliar person
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the attachment figure serves as a secure base for exploration
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a point of safety from which an infant can venture and to which she can return for affection and security
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Ainsworth and her associates developed the Strange Situation as a procedure for measuring
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the quality of attachment
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what are the eight episodes of gradually escalating stress as adult strangers approach and as a caregiver departs and returns?
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1) experimenter leaves parent and baby to play 2) parent sits while baby plays-use of parent as secure base 3) stranger enters, talks to parent-stranger anxiety 4) parent leaves stranger lets baby play-separation anxiety 5) parent returns, greets baby-reacts to reunion 6)parent leaves-separation anxiety 7) stranger enters, offers comfort-stranger anxiety 8) parent turns-reactions to reunion
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On the basis of an infants pattern of behavior during the strange situation, the quality of attachment to a parent can be characterized as one of four types
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1) secure 2) resistant 3) avoidant 4) disorganized-disoriented
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Secure attachment
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-about 60-65% of 1 year olds -infant actively explores room when alone with mom bc she is secure base -infant may be upset by separation but greets mother warmly -when mother is present, infant friendly with stranger
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resistant attachment
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-about 10% of 1 year olds -characterized by anxious ambivalent reactions - the resistant infant does not venture off to play even when his mother is present because she is not secure base -infant becomes distressed when mother departs -when mother returns infant is ambivalent-resents her for leaving -wary of strangers, even when their mothers are present
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avoidant attachment
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15% of 1 year olds -uninterested in exploring, show little apparent distress when separated from their mothers, and avoid contact or seem indifferent when mothers return -avoidant infants seem to have distanced themselves from their parents
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disorganized-disoriented attachment
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15% of 1 year olds (more in high risk families) -seems to be associated with later emotional problems -when infants are reunited with their mothers after a separation, they may act dazed or lie immobile on floor -may seek contact but then move away as their mothers approach them, only to seek contact again - appear to have been unable to devise a consistent strategy for regulating negative emotions such as separation anxiety
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Securely attached infants have parents who are
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sensitive and responsive to their needs and emotional signals
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infants with a resistant pattern have parents who are
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inconsistent in their caregiving -may react enthusiastically or indifferently and are frequently unresponsive
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infants with an avoidant attachment have parents who tend to
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provide either too little or too much stimulation -parents may be rejecting or impatient, unresponsive, and resentful when the infant interferes with their plans
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the disorganized-disoriented style of attachment is evident in as many as 80% of infants who have been
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physically abused or maltreated -common among infants whose mothers are depressed or abuse alcohol and drugs
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infants temperament influences attachment-attachments tend to be insecure when infants are by temperament-
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fearful, irritable, or unresponsive -the caregiver's style of parenting and the infant's temperament often interact to determine attachment outcome
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Poverty and marital difficulties are stressful, can interfere with parents' abilities to provide sensitive care, and may contribute to
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insecure attachments
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The cultural context also influences parenting and the meanings of attachment
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-in western, individualistic cultures, optimal development means becoming an autonomous being -in easter, collectivist cultures, the goal is to become integrated into the group
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what is it about deprived early environments that damages development?
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-lack of stable caregivers and stable attachment relationships -lack of proper nutrition, hygiene and medical care -lack of stimulation
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disinhibited attachment
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-a disturbed pattern of behavior characterized by indiscriminate friendliness, lack of appropriate wariness of strangers, and difficulty participating in real, reciprocal social interactions
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According to bowlby and ainsworth's attachment theory
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a secure attachment, once formed, allows exploration from a secure base
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Securely attached children should be more ___competent
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-cognitively -socially -emotionally
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according to John Bowlby parent-child attachment changes during childhood
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becomes a goal-corrected partnership in which a parent and the child becomes a more sensitive partner and grows more independent of the parent
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Children become dependent on ____for social and emotional support
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peers
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ages 2 -12, children spend more time with ____ than _____
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peers than adults
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the years from age 2-5 are sometimes called the
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play years -becomes more social and more imaginative
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after age 5, play becomes more
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serious play
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Mildred Parten's six categories of activity, arranged from least to most social
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1) unoccupied play 2) solitary play 3) onlooker play 4) parallel play 5) associative play 6) cooperative play
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unoccupied play
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children stand idly, look around, or engage in aimless activities
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solitary play
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children play alone (usually with objects)
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onlooker play
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children watch others play, not directly participating
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parallel play
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children play next to one another doing the same thing but interact little
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associative play
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children interact by swapping materials and conversing but dont have the same goal
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cooperative play
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children join forces to achieve common goal
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major message of Parten's study
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-play becomes increasingly social and socially skilled from ages 2-5
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what is pretend play and at what age does it occur?
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-play in which one actor, object or action symbolizes or stands for another -occurs around age 1
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children combine their capacity for increasingly social play and their capacity for pretense to create social pretend play
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children cooperate with caregivers or playmates to enact dramas
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After they enter school, children engage less frequently in pretend play, but now spend more time
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playing organized games with rules-board games, computer games, tag, hide and seek etc.
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4 types of child play
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-locomotor play -object play -social play -pretend play
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sociometric techniques
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methods for determining who is liked and who is disliked in a group
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sociometric techniques allows children to be classified into 5 social status categories
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1) popular-well liked rarely disliked 2) rejected-rarely liked and often disliked 3) neglected-neither liked nor disliked-invisible 4) controversial-liked by many but also disliked by many 5) average-in middle of both the liked and disliked scales
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children who are neglected by peers often
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gain greater acceptance later
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children who are rejected, usually because of aggressive behavior, are likely to
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maintain their rejected status from grade to grade
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If adolescents are to become independent autonomous individuals, they need supportive parents to provide both
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-security and encouragement to explore -a balance of exploration and attachment is the key to successful development at this age
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adolescents who enjoy secure attachment relationships with their parents generally have
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-a stronger sense of identity -higher self esteem -greater social competence -better emotional adjustment -fewer behavioral probs
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like children, adolescents form friendships with peers who are
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similar to themselves in observable ways
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dating relationships in early adolescents are
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more superficial and short lived
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adolescent romantic relationships evolve through 4 phases
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1) Initiation phase 2) Status phase 3) Affection phase 4) Bonding phase
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Initiation phase
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in early adolescence, the focus is on the self-specifically on coming to see onself as a person capable of relating to members of the other sex in a romantic way
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Status phase
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in mid adolescence, peer approval is what counts
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Affection phase
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in late adolescence, the focus is on the relationship rather than on self-concept or peer status
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Bonding phase
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in transition to early adulthood, the emotional intimacy achieved in affection phase is coupled with long term commitment
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Researches have proposed that each of us has a social convoy
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a social network and support system that accompanies us during our life's journey, changing as we go
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social interaction patterns vary across adulthood
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-younger adults form romantic relationships and friendships
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___form closer friendship ties than ___
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women than men
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young adults tend to have ___friends than older adults
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more
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through adulthood social networks ___
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shrink
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what are the 2 theoretical explanations for shrinking of social convoy with age?
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1) socio-emotional selectivity theory 2) positivity effect
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Socio-emotional selectivity theory
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explains the shrinking social convoy as a choice older adults make to better meet their emotional needs once they perceive the time left to them as short
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Older adults may achieve their emotional gratifucation goals through the Positivity Effect
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By paying more attention to, better remembering, and putting more priority in positive info than on negative info
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the greatest influence on mate selection is similarity or
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homogamy
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Sternberg's triangular theory of love
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identifies different types of love based on the strength of the 3 components of love
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Sternberg's 3 components of love
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passion, intimacy, and decision/commitment
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Passion involves
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sexual attraction, romantic feelings, and excitement
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Intimacy involves
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-feelings of warmth, caring, closeness, trust, and respect in the relationship -it is about emotional togetherness, communication, and happiness
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Decision/commitment involves
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first deciding that one loves the other person and then committing to a long -term relationship
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Consummate love
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when couples enjoy high levels of passion, intimacy, and commitment/decision
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companionate love
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affectionate love defined by high intimacy and commitment but not much passion
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Adults with a secure working model feel ____ about themselves and ____about others
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postive postive
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Adults with preoccupied internal working model have
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positive view of other people, but feel unlovable
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Adults with a dismissing style of attachment have
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a positive view of themselves but do not trust other people
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Adults with a fearful internal working model
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have a negative view of themselves and other people
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adults internal working models predict the extent to which adults have
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the confidence and curiosity to explore and master their environments
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a secure attachment style in adulthood is associated with
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strong achievement motivation and a focus on mastering challenges as apposed to avoiding failure -enjoy work and are good at it
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equity
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balance of contributions and gains on satisfaction in relationships
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the size of an adults social network is not nearly as important as whether it includes at least one confidant
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a spouse, relative, or friend to whom the individual feels especially attached and with whom thoughts and feelings can be shared
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