Money is the most commonly used means of exchange in the world. As usually said, money is not an assurance of happiness. Should I agree with this? Moreover, when one has just enough money, they are in a better position to be happy. If many of us would be asked what would make us happy, we could reply that having a lot of money would guarantee our happiness. Quite a small number of people would think of happiness in friendship, good relationship and good health which are paramount sources of joy. The money will give anyone satisfaction regarding the way we use the money and the way we see money and the value we give to money. The money will guarantee happiness but in a limited span of time only when the money available if only you rely on mone
...y for happiness.
The money will make you happy where you find happiness with your lover. It will be so challenging to be happy with one another as lovers if there is no money. Without money, one cannot give the right treat to his lover, talk of taking her out, buying her fancy things, meeting her daily needs and most importantly making her feel comfortable. We need money to remain happy around our loved ones. With the money, you can take her around the world to discover new things and make meet more people hence creating more links with the world. In contrary to this, having a lover who has just come into your life because of money you have does not guarantee you happiness. For one, the relationship between you and your lover is the money.
Once you lose the money, your partner may leave you. With this, you will never settle but always fight to gain more money so that you can keep her it a source of stress and hence depriving you of your happiness. But even without money, you will be able to stay happy with the one who loves you genuinely. The true lover will always encourage you even at hard moments she will give you hope in life. You can work together to achieve the demands of life and stay happy together.
With a lot of money, you will be able to get anything you want anytime you want it. Having everything you have will always make you comfortable and happy. But once you have a lot of money, you will have needs and your needs will very demanding. Take, for example; you have money, and you buy yourself a fancy car. This car will always require fueling. This will push you to work for more money so that you can power your vehicle of which without doing so you will be under pressure and this takes away your happiness.
Without a lot of money but just enough to fulfill your needs will make your life a happy life. For one, you will never yarn for very expensive things that will keep you on toes but you will just have what you need, and this will guarantee your happiness. Not having a lot of money leaves you with only looking for what you should have for that day and not even stress yourself thinking about any occurrence that can take away your pride.
With the money, you can easily
meet the daily living needs. One will be able to pay bills and live without bills. The money will also help you to pay school fees quickly without struggle and enable your children to learn without wrangles and achieve good grades in school which will bring you happiness. With the money, you will avoid the shame of not paying bills and being ashamed of being chased everywhere. With a lot of money, you will be able to meet medical charges whenever they fall due. This will always be your happiness.
With a lot of money will make you tend to ignore small things that are core sources of happiness like rest and sleep. One will forego these key sources of happiness and peace of mind just to chase after more money. With a lot of money, one will limit their class only those classy people, and this may lead to losing key friends who can bring happiness to you and hence clink to only those who are after the money. These will never give you happiness. Having little or just enough money will make you live near your good and genuine friends where you can quickly obtain satisfaction and relate happily.
Those people with a lot of money tend to stress themselves up because their security is loose. They have no peace of mind, and hence they don’t have happiness. They are always pessimistic about life and think that they can be attacked anytime. This makes them move with their bodyguards everywhere for protection. Thieves always target these people. This makes people with a lot of money to remain with a lot of stress and lack happiness
with their money. But with little or just enough money one will never think of any attack and will live a happy and free life.
A lot of money cannot buy genuine relationship and friendship. The money will bring you friends, but they will all be after the money. Genuineness always brings laughter and happiness is one’s life. The friends who come to you because of money will always leave you with sorrow because once you cannot afford what they want, they will just flee you. Relationships should be built on love. But once you tend to buy the relationship, it will be happy only the moment you have money. Once you lack money even under the actual situation, this relationship may terminate. Only genuine friendship will flourish even without money. And this brings in happiness.
A lot of money cannot buy health which is the main reason for joy. Instead, a lot of money will tend to put in a lot of health complications. Thus is because many wealthy people tend to rely on luxury and forget about safe living. Many rich people are dying of diabetes and high blood pressure. Such health complications cannot be found on the individual who doesn't have a lot of money.
Happiness is one of the very few fundamentals that cannot be obtained just because one has money. Ones have to find happiness first before even thinking of having happiness from money. Money cannot buy genuine relationship, good health, and friendship and family relationships. But with this one can stay happy even without money. Though, we need money to be happy.
